Foster a Child, Change a Life: Why Connecticut Needs More Foster Families

Every day in Connecticut, children enter foster care because their homes are no longer safe. Some are removed due to neglect or abuse. That is where foster families come in...

By Emanuela Palmares

Every day in Connecticut, children enter foster care because their homes are no longer safe. Some are removed due to neglect or abuse. Others need short-term care while their parents work through a crisis. What all of these children share is a need for stability, patience, and a safe place to land.

That is where foster families come in, and right now, Connecticut needs more such families.

The Connecticut Department of Children and Families (DCF) is responsible for protecting children and strengthening families across the state. When children cannot safely remain at home, DCF places them with licensed foster families who provide daily care while the agency works toward reunification or another permanent plan. Foster care is meant to support families, not replace them, and to give children consistency during uncertain times.

Who Can Become a Foster Parent?

Many people assume foster parenting is only for a certain “type” of family. In reality, Connecticut welcomes a wide range of caregivers. Adults who are single, married, divorced, or living with a partner may foster. Families may rent or own their homes. Foster parents may be LGBTQIA+, young adults, or seniors. Parenting experience is helpful, but it is not required.

DCF evaluates families on a case-by-case basis and does not discriminate based on race, age, gender identity or expression, marital status, or sexual orientation. What matters most is a caregiver’s ability to provide a safe, loving, and stable home.

All prospective foster parents must complete required training and pass federal, state, and local background and DMV checks. CT Fosters and partner agencies support families through every step of the process.

Income Requirements: What Families Should Know

There is no minimum income level required to become a foster parent in Connecticut. Families must show they can cover their own basic living expenses, such as rent or mortgage, utilities, food, insurance, and medical costs, without relying on the foster care stipend.

The monthly stipend is intended to help cover the child’s needs, not to serve as a family’s primary source of income. Many foster parents work full-time, and CT Fosters can help families understand childcare options and support when needed.

Clearing Up Common Myths About Foster Care

There are many misconceptions that prevent families from exploring foster care:

Myth: It’s really difficult to become a foster parent.
Fact: While there are guidelines and steps, families receive guidance and support throughout the process.

Myth: You must be married or already have children.
Fact: Single adults, couples, and first-time parents can foster.

Myth: You must own a home or have a separate bedroom for each child.
Fact: Renting is allowed, and bedroom sharing is permitted in many cases.

Myth: You can’t foster if you work full-time or want a normal family life.
Fact: Many foster parents work full-time, take vacations, attend social events, and support children’s playdates and activities.

Myth: Biological parents are “bad” people who should not reunify with their children.
Fact: Most parents love their children and are working through challenges. Foster care often supports reunification when it is safe and appropriate.

These facts reflect DCF’s approach to foster care as a partnership focused on child safety, family stability, and long-term well-being.

Training, Support, and Placement

Foster parents are never alone in this work. They receive training, ongoing support, and guidance from social workers and partner agencies. Families can share preferences about the age, needs, and number of children they feel best prepared to support. DCF works to make thoughtful placements, so children experience as few disruptions as possible.

Some placements last weeks or months. Others last longer. In some cases, foster parents later adopt. Each role, including short-term and respite care, is vital.

Why This Matters

For a child who has experienced trauma, a calm home, a predictable routine, and a caring adult can be life-changing. Foster parents help children feel safe and valued during one of the most uncertain times in their lives.

If you have ever wondered whether you could make a difference, fostering is one meaningful way to do so, right here in our community.

Families interested in learning more can call 1-888-KID-HERO (1-888-543-4376) or attend a foster care information session through CT Fosters.

Opening your home does more than help a child. It strengthens families and builds a stronger Connecticut for all of us.

Note: DCF does not list U.S. citizenship as a requirement to foster. Documentation needs may vary by agency, and families with questions about eligibility or paperwork are encouraged to contact DCF or a licensed foster care agency directly.

Sources: Connecticut Department of Children and Families; CT Fosters Foster Care Q&A; CT Fosters Myths & Facts